Saturday, April 10, 2010

DSKKK serial - Marriage. Old tradition and Medical facts

The Z tv program has just hosted a new serial called "Do Saheliyan Kismat ki kathputaliyan" (DSKKK) based friendship between two girls of different casts from Rajstan. One is Rajput and another is Rabadi.

India has completed 60 years of independence. Yet we are not open to inter-cast marriages. That fact is depicted into the serial where Rajput girl marries Rabadi guy. From that point, the war between two families begins. There are so many people who are not open minded to accept new age thinking. They are still in their old age thinking that they are rich and there traditions don't allow them to do so and so things. Beliefs are not changed. Thats when the gap is created between old generation and young new generation.

The old tradition was not to allow bride to see groom and vice versa before marriage. Thats what its depicted in serial and which brings turn in lives of two girls. "Ghunghata" system in old tradition also leads accidents where you can not sure who is sitting in bride position whether she is a showed photograph girl or another one. Once the marriage is over that guy may go crazy by trick of sitting another girl as a bride. Thanks to new system which changed the old tradition of Ghunghata system.  No more Ghunghata.

In old days of our grandfathers or great grandfathers, there was not so much development in medical science to make sure blood groups of a bride and groom. According to medical terms, there are some blood group cases where its dangerous for girl to marry with guy of same blood group. That creates some complications during pregnancy and other facts. (which is beyond my scope to explain). In arrange marriages (which came from old age), we follow Gothras, suthras, etc. to match. That fact of matching was taking care of danger involved in getting married with problematic same blood group cases. Still we find that there is a lack of knowledge of blood groups involving complications after marriage. If we research scientifically on old tradition of arrange marriages, we may find so many explanations as I wrote one above.

All together we can not deny old tradition of matching Gothras, Sutras etc. Since it involves safety of bride and groom's lives. We have to consider old people's perspective and understand it with our modern scientific ways. We can relate them properly. We can get to know our old traditions and concepts involved in it.

Obviously few traditions like Ghunghata, girl not able to meet or discuss with guy and vice versa are all shit!!!

Uffs what a dance!!!

DID is coming to such a point where the pinnacle of dance performances are taking place. Yesterday DID program started with an opening dance of super six dancers. Binny started off with musical bits leading towards Amar, followed by Dharmesh and Amrita performing, followed by Shakti and Punit... Then all came together to rock the DID stage with rocking song of "Karthik calling Karthik" movie - "uff teri Ada"..  Song is romantic filled with beautiful musical bits... especially rhythm of  singing  "Uff teri Ada" bits millions of hearts.

Fashion Costumes of super six dancers was beautiful... They were looking like a stars with having red, green and blue color (RGB) combination... with black to match with all colors. Decoration and design of DID stage was so much fantastic. Use of whole stage by dancers was done with great choreographer's creative ideas. Lightening effects on stage to match dancer's dress codes was amazing. Use of camera was so beautifully done that it did not miss any steps or facial expressions of dancers.

Uff,  ladakiyon ki adaaye to maar daalane waali thi. Ladakon ki lift karane ki style while girls sliding down with their help was fantastic...  While boys inward and girls moving outward created a blossom dance form. Binny was little late in creating blossom but Amar lifted her and made their way out,  immediately followed by rapid move of Punit lifting Shakti... then there was a little gap in Punit & shakti and Dharmesh &Amrita  due to slow movement of Dharmesh to lift Amrita... but the camera showed it off so perfectly that it does not leave any point to say there. Also during next steps, when girls were lifting their legs  while guys standing on, Amrita was not able to balance herself.. (may be due to her enthusiasm and energy)... Later when six together moved on a stage, it created a magic...  At last when super six lined up to dance on bits of "hause gavaane ke.." and "aag laaga ke naach..." uff kya adayen thi.... At last when guys lifted and flipped girls, it was awesome!!!

Writing comment style is of  Terence Sir. I dedicate this blog to Terence Sir [:)]. Happy Birthday Terence Sir.

Overall the dance by super six created a magic of DID moving towards grand finale..


Here is a link of super six performing:
http://danceindiadance.zeetv.com/videos/super-six-perform-apr-9.html